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Bright Spots can grow in dark places.


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as well as a place for tips on how to create Bright Spots.


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so we can create a world with more Bright Spots.



Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Matt Pegg - An Extraordinary Teacher


I hope Matt Pegg never forgets who he is right now. I believe that he is a leader and is destined to someday move into a leadership position as an administrator. At this moment, he is a classroom Teacher in a leadership position. He is a Role Model of the highest order for other Teachers.

Sometimes when people move into administrative leadership, they lose the compassion they had when they were in the classroom. Matt’s focus is his students. He is extraordinarily focused. I don’t think he could even define the term “status quo” because it is so foreign to him. Matt is constantly creating new opportunities for children to grow. He pays attention to each student with an individualistic compassion that is rare.

A small change in a child's life creates a big change in the world. The students in Mr. Pegg's Class are involved in change.

I had the personally enriching experience of working with Matt in the classroom last year at West Hertel Academy, Buffalo School #94. The Youth With A Purpose Relationship Mentoring Program can change lives. The YWAP Program only works well when we partner with Teachers like Matt. He is intuitively sensing the needs and moods of his students. He will rearrange the classroom to create a more conducive learning environment. Matt will give individual attention to a student who is not quite in a participatory mood for a YWAP Leadership Lesson. That is the beauty of collaboration. Disturbances that disrupt the students focus are kept at a minimum.

The YWAP Director is probably the only Mentor in the world who served detention and it happened in Mr. Pegg's Class.  The YWAP Director did not wear his School Uniform and the students noticed. They said they would get detention if they didn't wear their uniform. I told Mr. Pegg to write me up and he did. I served Detention in silence. Mr. Pegg is probably the only Teacher in the history of the world that wrote a Detention Slip for a Mentor!

World History - A Mentor's Detention Slip for the Reflection Room.

Youth With A Purpose is a better organization because of Matt Pegg. He takes time out of his own schedule to tutor the YWAP Director on video making. One of the videos that Matt helped make was used as a teaching module in Riverside High School. Character education delivered through peer influence via the Internet is powerfully motivating. YWAP is indebted to Matt for helping us reach more young people with a message of positive peer influence.  The following link will lead you to one of the videos that Matt helped us with.


West Hertel Academy is filled with excellent Teachers along with a top notch Principal. Mrs. Poles walks the halls with an empathetic compassion. She seems to look through the discipline problem at hand and sees a wounded heart that is causing the disturbance. She ministers to the wounded heart with a discipline that grows good character. She is patient in the face of adversity and allows forgiveness to rule the day. Both Mrs. Poles and Mr. Pegg are like trees who soak up the feelings of the children who surround them.

During Detention, a student brought me some grapes. Mr. Pegg's Class is like a vine full of students. He gives attention to each grape. Bruised fruit can become sweeter when handled properly. Students are healed through Matt's compassion.


It is exhilarating to look forward to another school year knowing that there are many Teachers like Matt Pegg who will be guiding our children. We are grateful that we can partner with compassionate people who are creating a better future for our children. 
 From all the YWAPsters to The Peggster: Thank you for who you are!

Thanks for your time. Go do something nice for somebody.

"Find new ways, 
  in as many ways, 
    in more excellent ways, 
      on all of your days, 
        to show love." 

Bob Kuebler
YWAP Director

Youth With A Purpose
In School & After School
In The Mountains & In The Hood
157 Locust Street
Buffalo, New York 14204
716-830-8240
"All Children Are Gifted" 
http://thebrightspotreport.blogspot.com/
A Scholarship for a young person to attend a 3 day Wilderness Adventure in the Adirondack Mountains is valued at $185. We are a 501c3 and your donations are tax deductible. You may give online at:
http://www.gofundme.com/73te4
If you are looking for a speaker for parents or youth or both, please call us.  

Friday, August 10, 2012

Will They Touch the Hem of Your Garment?

A tree imprisoned with ice is like a frozen heart.

 Last night as I drove people home, I was telling somebody about my life. I said that I get my heart broken about once a week. Mostly I hurt for what happens to other people. I see their pain and I absorb it. I see murders, homeless, addiction, abuse, poverty and more everyday. I think the worst is when I witness bitter people become contagious and infect lonely people who are like innocent lambs being lead to a slaughter.

Father forgive them, they don't know what their doing.

 Bitterness and anger is like leprosy and it eats away at the flesh of the heart.The disease of strife and division eats away at relationships. Unless the heart is treated, it will calcify and harden into a final death stage named hate. There is nobody that has ever been born who is perfect.

Every human being ever created;
 has been,
 is,
or will be
guilty of a moral transgression against another.

Forgiving yourself can help point the way of forgiveness for a friend.  

Forgiveness will bring the intervention of healing and prevent more hardening of the heart. Yes, the hardened heart may become flesh again and be free to love. The first person we need to forgive is ourselves. In an almost unconscious way, our hurt blinds us to the fact of our own complicity in the situation that we are mad about. When we are mad at somebody. the first thing we should do is turn the microscope on our own heart and ask some questions: "Have I ever acted this way?
"Do I treat people this way?"
"Is the person who hurt me having a hard time in life?"
 "Are they even aware of the pain they are causing?"
 "Am I the cause of the pain in my relationships?"
"Do I sabotage relationships because of a faulty conscience that says: 'Relationships don't last because everybody leaves me so I will reject them before they reject me?"

This tree seems to have Jesus hanging the way he did on the Cross. Even in the midst of enormous pain, he talked about forgiveness. He looked down at his torturers and said: "Father forgive then for they don't know what they are doing"

We cannot change other people we can only ask God's help in changing ourselves. Healing can become contagious as we forgive ourselves. People will begin to reach out and touch the hem of your garment as they hunger for the healing that we carry because we have learned to love through brokenness.

FORGIVE

Jesus loves you and so do I.

"Find new ways, 
  in as many ways, 
    in more excellent ways, 
      on all of your days, 
        to show love." 

Bob Kuebler
YWAP Director

Youth With A Purpose
In School & After School
In The Mountains & In The Hood
157 Locust Street
Buffalo, New York 14204
716-830-8240
"All Children Are Gifted" 
http://thebrightspotreport.blogspot.com/
A Scholarship for a young person to attend a 3 day Wilderness Adventure in the Adirondack Mountains is valued at $185. We are a 501c3 and your donations are tax deductible. You may give online at:
http://www.gofundme.com/73te4
If you are looking for a speaker for parents or youth or both, please call us.